#HumansCare | From Struggle to Strength, Kohinoor’s Story
Kohinoor, a 24-year-old mother from Savar Union, Dhaka, Bangladesh, faced immense challenges in raising her daughter, Farea, who has autism. The lack of understanding from those around her made things even harder. Family members blamed Kohinoor, making her feel helpless and alone. With no clear guidance on how to support her daughter’s needs, Kohinoor felt lost and struggled to navigate a world that seemed to have no place for them.
Everything changed when Kohinoor was introduced to our local charity partner, Centre for Disability in Development (CDD).
Through a home visit, she learned about their Carers Project and joined the Dhorenda-2 Carers Self-Help Group, where she met others who shared similar struggles. She no longer felt alone. Over time, she became an active member and is now the group’s president - helping other unpaid family carers find the same strength she once lacked.
Finding Strength Through Support
One of the biggest transformations in Kohinoor’s life came through attending our Dhorenda Community Caring Centre (CCC), where she could bring Farea every day. The structured support and activities helped Farea thrive, easing many of Kohinoor’s worries. “Since attending the CCC, my daughter’s fear is gone, and she is improving so much. I truly believe this centre is a blessing for children with disabilities.” Kohinoor shares.
As part of the Carers Project, Kohinoor also gained access to critical health services that improved her own well-being. She suffered from back pain but had no means to seek treatment. Thanks to CDD’s health camps, she received medical and therapy services, significantly improving her condition. “Before, I used to be scared about my health,” she recalls. “Now, I don’t worry because I know someone is thinking about us.”
Building a Sustainable Livelihood
Financial independence was another hurdle for Kohinoor. As part of the Carers Project, she received livelihood training in poultry rearing. She started with just five hens, and within two months, she had grown her flock to twelve and was earning money from selling eggs. She learned financial management skills, saved money for the future and, encouraged by her success, she has expanded her skills to include sewing work, further increasing her financial stability.
A Transformational Journey
Kohinoor’s journey has been one of transformation. Where once she was confined by fear and societal judgment, she now moves freely and with confidence. “Before joining the Carers Project, I never believed I could do anything. Now, I know that my daughter and I are not a burden to society - we can contribute,” she proudly states.
A Message from Those Around Her
Her family has noticed the change as well. Her sister reflects, “She was always struggling, always facing criticism. But since she joined the CDD Carers Project, she is finally living a normal life. She is stronger, happier. Thank you, CDD, for standing by her side."
For the staff at CDD, Kohinoor’s journey has been deeply moving. One staff member recalls, "At first, she couldn’t believe anyone cared about her and Farea. But now, when she smiles, it’s genuine. Seeing her strength and growth - it’s a privilege."
Looking Ahead
Kohinoor dreams of a world where unpaid family carers receive the respect and recognition they deserve. She hopes that carers like her will one day receive a Carers Allowance and that society will acknowledge the vital role they play. More than anything, she wants to raise Farea to be strong and independent.
Thanks to the support of CDD and the Carers Project, Kohinoor’s story is no longer one of struggle but of empowerment. Her journey proves that with the right support, unpaid family carers and their loved ones can transform their lives and their futures.
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